{"id":187,"date":"2008-01-18T00:24:52","date_gmt":"2008-01-18T07:24:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.howtocopewithpain.org\/blog\/187\/what-doctors-want-from-patients\/"},"modified":"2025-09-04T14:04:37","modified_gmt":"2025-09-04T18:04:37","slug":"what-doctors-want-from-patients","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.howtocopewithpain.org\/blog\/187\/what-doctors-want-from-patients\/","title":{"rendered":"What Doctors Want From Patients"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What do doctors want from patients?\u00a0 What helps doctors give you the best care?<\/p>\n<p>But first, 2 precautions, so this article isn&#8217;t taken the wrong way&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>1. Don&#8217;t worry about needing to be a perfect patient.<\/p>\n<p>2.\u00a0These suggestions aren&#8217;t so <em>your doctor&#8217;s<\/em>\u00a0life is better, but\u00a0so <em>you<\/em>\u00a0can help your doctor be able to\u00a0give <em>you<\/em>\u00a0the best treatment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How to be a\u00a0&#8220;good&#8221; patient<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Be organized and focused<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Both at your initial visit with a doctor, and at follow-up appointments, communicating important information about your health is crucial. Have your medical history outlined, know what medications and procedures you&#8217;ve tried and the results. Keep your focus on your health issues.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Relate a clear story, without too much unnecessary detail<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Time is at a premium in health visits today. Ask yourself, <em>Is this story or detail going to help my doctor help me? <\/em>If not, leave it out. For example, instead of telling a long, rambling story to\u00a0illustrate the point that your pain effects your ability to work, just say that directly. Your doctor may ask for an example, in which case you can elaborate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Prioritize which symptoms\/problems need to be focused on at each visit<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For both\u00a0new evaluations or\u00a0follow-up visits, have 2-3 goals for a visit and write these down.\u00a0Presenting\u00a0these\u00a0at the\u00a0outset gets you and your doctor on the same page as far as what to address. Be realistic on what can be accomplished during 1 visit &#8211; there&#8217;s not usually time for more than a few issues.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Keep a log of how you respond to each treatment<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pain logs are helpful to figure out what&#8217;s making things worse and what&#8217;s helping. If you&#8217;re having many flare-ups, review your logs before the visit, so you can discuss what might be going on. If you&#8217;re trying a new medication, pain management technique, or PT, be able to present what worked, what didn&#8217;t, and what questions you have about the new treatment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Follow through on taking medication, practicing pain management techniques, etc.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Your doctor can make treatment suggestions, but it&#8217;s up to <em>you<\/em> to put them into practice. Take your medication as directed. If there&#8217;s something that gets in the way of that &#8211; you don&#8217;t understand the directions, you&#8217;re having side effects, the medication&#8217;s too expensive &#8211; speak up about this. If you&#8217;re to do relaxation exercises each day, do them. If you&#8217;re to practice\u00a0exercises at home between PT visits, do this. Treatments will only work if you use them!<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Don&#8217;t be\u00a0overly dramatic<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Your doctor needs to know if your pain is severe, or if you&#8217;re having a hard time coping with pain. But use language that can help your doctor help you. Give a 1-to-10 rating of your usual daily pain, your worst daily pain, and how much your pain levels fluctuate. Briefly describe what you can and can&#8217;t do when you have pain &#8211; this gives your doctor an indication of your functioning.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re depressed or anxious,\u00a0get a referral to a pain management therapist. Many pain medicine doctors, for example neurologists and anesthesiologists, don&#8217;t have either the time or expertise to discuss your emotional state or help you cope better. However, coping with pain is so important! So get a referral\u00a0to an appropriate person who can\u00a0help you.<\/p>\n<p>Phrases to avoid:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;my pain is 10\/10 all day, every day&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;nothing helps&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;narcotics are the only thing that help&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>7. Don&#8217;t expect a miracle<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard to continue to experience\u00a0pain as your treatment unfolds. However, for most people, that&#8217;s the reality of chronic pain treatment. For some, full pain relief will come. For many, unfortunately, their pain won&#8217;t be completely relieved. But for most, treatment can get you to a better place, both decreasing pain and coping better with pain. Try to be patient &#8211; if there were a faster, easier, or better way, your doctor would already be prescribing it.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks for listening!\u00a0 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What do doctors want from patients?\u00a0 What helps doctors give you the best care? But first, 2 precautions, so this article isn&#8217;t taken the wrong way&#8230; 1. Don&#8217;t worry about needing to be a perfect patient. 2.\u00a0These suggestions aren&#8217;t so your doctor&#8217;s\u00a0life is better, but\u00a0so you\u00a0can help your doctor be able to\u00a0give you\u00a0the best treatment. 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