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	<title>Comments on: What Doctors Want From Patients</title>
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		<title>By: How to Cope with Pain</title>
		<link>http://www.howtocopewithpain.org/blog/187/what-doctors-want-from-patients/comment-page-1/#comment-18234</link>
		<dc:creator>How to Cope with Pain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 18:21:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Angela,
I just got the picture from the web, so it&#039;s not mine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Angela,<br />
I just got the picture from the web, so it&#8217;s not mine.</p>
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		<title>By: Angela Harrington</title>
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		<dc:creator>Angela Harrington</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 14:25:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would like to know if I can use this picture for a college paper I am writing about prescription medications and women over 40. I like this photo and it would work very well in my paper. This is for Axia College with the University of Phoenix. Thank you for your consideration. Angela</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would like to know if I can use this picture for a college paper I am writing about prescription medications and women over 40. I like this photo and it would work very well in my paper. This is for Axia College with the University of Phoenix. Thank you for your consideration. Angela</p>
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		<title>By: How to Cope with Pain</title>
		<link>http://www.howtocopewithpain.org/blog/187/what-doctors-want-from-patients/comment-page-1/#comment-5652</link>
		<dc:creator>How to Cope with Pain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2008 22:34:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adam, great question.  It may depend on both how good your relationship is with your doctor, as well as how &quot;prickly&quot; your doctor is, how easily he/she would take offense.

Instead of just not getting the stress test and saying nothing, I&#039;d recommend at least telling your doc that you&#039;re not planning on getting one right away.  This will give your doc a chance to tell you if she thinks you &lt;i&gt;really&lt;/i&gt; need one, or if she does consider it optional.  This is medical info you need to understand.  Of course, you can still choose not to get the test, but at least you know what risks you&#039;re taking by doing so.

This also gives your doc a chance to perhaps suggest another test you &lt;i&gt;would&lt;/i&gt; agree to.  If you have a reasonable physician, he&#039;s open to discussions of this type.

Lastly, if this is the 100th test you&#039;ve declined, it gives your doc a chance to say, &quot;I think you&#039;d be better off working with someone who&#039;s advice you better agree with.&quot;  Or, if your MD flies off the handle, that can tell you perhaps you&#039;d like to work with someone who likes a bit more give and take with patients.

Good luck!  Let us know how it goes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adam, great question.  It may depend on both how good your relationship is with your doctor, as well as how &#8220;prickly&#8221; your doctor is, how easily he/she would take offense.</p>
<p>Instead of just not getting the stress test and saying nothing, I&#8217;d recommend at least telling your doc that you&#8217;re not planning on getting one right away.  This will give your doc a chance to tell you if she thinks you <i>really</i> need one, or if she does consider it optional.  This is medical info you need to understand.  Of course, you can still choose not to get the test, but at least you know what risks you&#8217;re taking by doing so.</p>
<p>This also gives your doc a chance to perhaps suggest another test you <i>would</i> agree to.  If you have a reasonable physician, he&#8217;s open to discussions of this type.</p>
<p>Lastly, if this is the 100th test you&#8217;ve declined, it gives your doc a chance to say, &#8220;I think you&#8217;d be better off working with someone who&#8217;s advice you better agree with.&#8221;  Or, if your MD flies off the handle, that can tell you perhaps you&#8217;d like to work with someone who likes a bit more give and take with patients.</p>
<p>Good luck!  Let us know how it goes.</p>
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		<title>By: Adam Becker Sr</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adam Becker Sr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2008 17:53:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How to be a &#039;good enough&#039; patient when not being a &#039;good&#039; patient.  I mean, how to tell your doc &quot;I&#039;m not going to follow your advice on this one,&quot; without damaging the relationship?

For example, my GP wants me to have a nuclear stress test.  I&#039;m diabetic (with excellent control); four years ago I had a stress test.  I showed a very minor oddity (1 mm depressed ST segment at maximal exertion).  He says he wants me to revisit it every few years &#039;just to be sure&#039;.   The stress test would be a whole lot of radiation for only a little information on a minor problem.  I&#039;m much more interested in getting an EBCT to see if I&#039;ve got coronary plaque.  I strongly suspect my doc of practicing CYA medicine.

So how to be a &#039;good&#039; patient under such circumstances?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How to be a &#8216;good enough&#8217; patient when not being a &#8216;good&#8217; patient.  I mean, how to tell your doc &#8220;I&#8217;m not going to follow your advice on this one,&#8221; without damaging the relationship?</p>
<p>For example, my GP wants me to have a nuclear stress test.  I&#8217;m diabetic (with excellent control); four years ago I had a stress test.  I showed a very minor oddity (1 mm depressed ST segment at maximal exertion).  He says he wants me to revisit it every few years &#8216;just to be sure&#8217;.   The stress test would be a whole lot of radiation for only a little information on a minor problem.  I&#8217;m much more interested in getting an EBCT to see if I&#8217;ve got coronary plaque.  I strongly suspect my doc of practicing CYA medicine.</p>
<p>So how to be a &#8216;good&#8217; patient under such circumstances?</p>
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		<title>By: Marijke</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marijke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2008 19:37:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post. Really good, helpful information.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post. Really good, helpful information.</p>
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		<title>By: How to Cope with Pain</title>
		<link>http://www.howtocopewithpain.org/blog/187/what-doctors-want-from-patients/comment-page-1/#comment-5595</link>
		<dc:creator>How to Cope with Pain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2008 13:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent suggestion.   Doctors &lt;i&gt;love&lt;/i&gt; data!  And I think it makes reports of pain seem more objective, especially to those doctors who might downplay reports of high pain levels.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent suggestion.   Doctors <i>love</i> data!  And I think it makes reports of pain seem more objective, especially to those doctors who might downplay reports of high pain levels.</p>
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		<title>By: Barbara K.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barbara K.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2008 01:15:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I actually kept a spread sheet of pain patterns correlated with time of day and possible stressors.   My scientific minded specialists loved it - and I think they paid closer attention to my concerns and questions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I actually kept a spread sheet of pain patterns correlated with time of day and possible stressors.   My scientific minded specialists loved it &#8211; and I think they paid closer attention to my concerns and questions.</p>
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